http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Logo_250X250.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Background_1024X576.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Banner_686X60.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Half-Banner_234X60.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Logo_250X250 http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Logo-Watermark_250X250.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Background_1024X576.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Half-Banner-ALT_234X60.jpg Bigthink - Idea Comments Feed Bigthink http://www.bigthink.com/feed/rss/comment/idea/10245 Fri, 25 Jul 2008 17:24:58 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 Comment on: Y do guys not know what a good thing they have til it's gone... http://www.bigthink.com/love-happiness/10245 Hi there Mike,<br /><br />You posting is a little incoherent, but I will try to make some helpful comments.<br /><br />I sense that you are finding it threatening that your girlfriend/partner might want to spend time with other girls.<br /><br />This seems a bit over possessive.<br /><br />You need to accept that women like to talk to other women. Its good for them. They can natter and bitch and gossip (mercifully outside our hearing) then come home with their vocal chords worn out.<br /><br />I think that you should encourage her, and while she is out, go and have a beer or five with your mates.<br /><br />If you cant trust her to go off by herself every so often, you dont have a relationship worth a damn.<br /><br />Loosen up!<br /> Bigthink Thu, 01 May 2008 07:35:23 +0100 http://www.bigthink.com/love-happiness/10245/#16193