http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Logo_250X250.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Background_1024X576.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Banner_686X60.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Half-Banner_234X60.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Logo_250X250 http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Logo-Watermark_250X250.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Background_1024X576.jpg http://www.bigthink.com/adobe/Half-Banner-ALT_234X60.jpg Bigthink http://www.bigthink.com/feed/rss/comment/idea/1610 Sun, 07 Sep 2008 00:48:40 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.bigthink.com//1610 We live in a dichotomous reality. Happy, unhappy, good, bad, up, down, etc. Unhappy is the teacher--if your goal is to be happy, you can benefit from examining your judgements and expectations that manifest in unhappiness. You cannot have happiness without unhappiness. When we are happy, we ask ourselves "When will this end?" "How long will it last?" "How do I hold on to this?" No one can "make" you happy--you decide Actually, peace is a more rewarding goal. Bigthink Wed, 16 Jan 2008 21:06:57 +0100 http://www.bigthink.com//1610/#1079