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Comment on: Suppressing our sexual desires…good or bad?

Bigthink — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 04:51:21 +0100

There is no good or bad, as I have said before our one infinite creator does not blink before a "good" or a "bad" action. But I like Nameless' idea of balance, that is looking at it in a more intelligent way, as more of an honor/responsibility.

Comment on: Suppressing our sexual desires…good or bad?

Bigthink — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 00:36:06 +0100

Balance is the Key.

You can transmute sexual energy (Jing Chi) up the spine and into your brain. When you conserve your "holy wine" (without spilling it) you will notice you become smarter, more creative, healthier and stronger.

If you seek balance spend your extra energy doing daily exercise, reading and more time with friends.

Comment on: Suppressing our sexual desires…good or bad?

Bigthink — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 15:37:00 +0100

I have always been mistified by cultural taboos against sex. And yes religion can explain it, but why do so many religions condemn it in the first place. As i said in another thread, maby it has to do with the level of intimacy acheived during sex, and maby that for some reason makes us uncomfortable. Maby it has to do with the general asosiation with the sexual organs and waste disposal, and the fact thet they are unclean makes the act unclean. It really is dificult to say what causes many cultures around the worl to adopt sexually repressive cultural norms.

However looking in the issue in a sober objective way taking culture and perspective out of it. I would say that there is no reason not to have sex more or less as much as you want. When we get hungry we dont supress that desire, but it is posible to eat to much. I think the same goes for sex, its posible to have to mch, but to much of course is subjective, so its pretty much up to the judgment of the individual. Sexual abstenence education is completly absurd, i graduated high school last year, and i put of taking any health classes until last year, because i figured they would be teaching propaganda such as this. And did they ever, the whole sexual abstenence presentation was the leas scientific and the most dogmatic presentation i have ever seen. Ther is no scientific data to back it, and in general no one took it seriously. So i would say that it is by far not the way to go whwn educating teens about sex.

Comment on: Suppressing our sexual desires…good or bad?

Bigthink — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 21:43:30 +0100

thats good and all, but i was not really talking about sexually orientation in specific :P more like, since we are sexual beings that sex should be a normal part of our lives, but there is a huge stigmatism put on sexuality and i think that actually causes more problems than it solves because suppressing something does not make it go away. a lot of the time, it makes it grow stronger. that whole notion of "i cant have this" so it makes you want it more.

Comment on: Suppressing our sexual desires…good or bad?

Bigthink — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 00:54:22 +0100

Well, Homosexuals should actually be thanked. They are not overcrowding the schools with more kids, draining the health and human resources from support of those kids. Causing more waste in the landfill, be not needing diapers. If everyone who are gay were to become straight, It would probably cause the collapse of the government, and the economy, Hundreds of thousands of more people would having children and eating up the limited resources we currently are running out of.

Comment on: Suppressing our sexual desires…good or bad?

Bigthink — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:44:29 +0100

i think sexual orientation is normal its natural to feel a bit controlled by it i think maybe there should be sex but you got to focus on your goals in life