Comment on: Is a kind person born that way, or cultivated?

Bigthink — Sat, 03 May 2008 03:41:38 +0100

As a sociable species, kindness has certainly benefited mankind. If kindness had to be cultivated it would not have shown itself so early in our history. I know that being kind is less noble as an inherited trait than an adopted trait but I'll take it and appreciate it any way it comes.

amandak

"super-kind" is just fine but be aware of a persons motivation. People are kind for many reasons; even if a person is sincere they may still be motivated by personal gain. Niceness motivated by personal insecurity is not completely sincere.

Being kind is wonderfully pleasant and healthy and should be encouraged by society.

Comment on: Is a kind person born that way, or cultivated?

Bigthink — Thu, 28 Feb 2008 22:53:41 +0100

I think kindness is cultivated. I say that because I think I've got quite a lot kinder over the years, through various experiences. Although that "super-kind" person, the one who never has a bad day and always helps people ... well I don't think I'll ever be like that. Not sure I'd want to, even.

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Comment on: Is a kind person born that way, or cultivated?

Comment on: Is a kind person born that way, or cultivated?