The things we admire and desire are the beautiful 'Dragons'... 'objects' that allow us to enslave ourselves. It is no fault of the 'dragon' if one gets 'burned' by it's nature; to fly and burn a passion in others. It is an individuals own desire that keeps them bound to the 'dragon'., that only becomes plain after selfish desire takes over and a partnership desolves due to an assumtion...the 'Dragon' is 'upgraded' for either more fun or comfort... something 'new' to desire.